I hear it all the time “They’re kids, they’ll grow out of it”, or “They’re kids, so they can eat that stuff”

If that’s you, I challenge you to hold you, your child and your family to a higher standard when it comes to nutrition.
Trust me, this isn’t a judgement. I have to constantly remind myself of this as well. Running a business full time, keeping up with the demands of a household, raising a four year old, and cooking meals seven days a week allows for many moments of “let’s just go out to eat”. Moments that I am usually able to talk myself out of, and feel better for having done so on the flip side.

Childeren are precious little people that are growing! Let’s ensure that it’s up and down, and not side to side. Nutrition can make a huge impact on them both mentally and physically.
Take one study for instance that shows that children who eat more than 12 hot dogs in a month have nine times the risk of developing childhood leukemia! Now, that’s something that didn’t sit lightly with me. I know parents (myself included) that at times fall back on quick and easy as I mentioned above, and know that there are certain things (like hot dogs) that kids will eat almost every time.
Something like this study just magnifies how nutrition and sometimes more importantly, the lack of it can impact a child’s life!
“But my kid is a very picky eater”.
This is a tough one. Especially for tired, worn out moms that don’t want to deal with the impending “fight” that this can cause.
Well, here’s 5 ways I’ve gotten my four year old involved to make her excited about eating fruits and veggies that she’d otherwise turn her nose up at…
1. Put them in charge. Every time she goes shopping with me, she’s got her own “list”. I’ll even have her write them down on her own piece of paper (I write them down as well on my list so that I can later translate her list in the store).
When I can, I put her in charge of things that she can also choose out a flavor or type, such as apples or yogurt.
This not only makes her excited about what she’s chosen, but makes the trip to the grocery store more interesting for her as well.
2. Make them sous chef. Shilo even has her own apron, which she is proud to wear. I found hers at Ross for about $10. You can also get a safe kid’s knife from Pampered Chef for $3 that can be used to cut apples, potatoes, cheese, etc.
Shilo helps me pour ingredients in to be mixed, and will help with the mixing, cutting, and preparation of most meals. By getting them involved, the meal becomes something they are proud of, and excited to eat, rather than some mystery dish they’re unsure of that you’ve set in front of them to eat.
Shilo at times will run to find James to let him know when dinner is ready, watch him take his first bite and eagerly ask him how he likes the dinner she helped make.

3. Have a “No thank you” bite rule. This is something I had picked up on from the pre-school that Shilo goes to.
Instead of the children just being allowed to dismiss something as unedible, they must first take a “no thank you” bite. Many times the child will still dismiss it after choking that bite down, but there are times that they realize that what they were disgusted by really isn’t half bad.
4. Explain your reasoning. Many times “because I said so”, or “because it’s good for you” are easy default answers. However, curious, intelligent minds respond so much better to an explanation. It does take a minute to do this, but I’ve explained the benefit of eating spinach, or broccoli, or tomatoes, etc. to Shilo and she now eats all three.
5. Don’t be the “short order cook”. As stated above, our children are intelligent, I’m sure I don’t need to remind you of this.
If given alternatives, they’ll take it. If you say “this is all that I’m going to make”, and 15 minutes after dinner allow them to have something of their choosing, they’ll remember that and default to their post dinner meal.
However, making the sometimes difficult decision to hold your ground on what’s being served will in the long run work to your advantage.
Trust me, kids are resilient and won’t starve to death, inspite of the trauma they seem to be in the first few evenings this rule is set.
They’ll learn that you’re serious and start taking advantage of the nutritious meal you’ve prepared. This isn’t mean or cruel, it’s being a loving parent, and doing what is best for your child inspite of them thinking otherwise.
We all want the best for our children, and when mealtime comes around, what they think is best and what you know is best can be two completely opposite things. Start establishing good habits while they’re young and you’ll have a thriving, healthy individual!
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